A Rare Connection: My Photo Shoot with John Schneider


I recently got asked to shoot photos for a show called “The Haves and HaveNots” for the Oprah Winfrey Network. I’ve shot many shows in my career and I always enjoy these shoots because there are so many challenges involved.

There’s tons of “talent” aka celebrities involved, all their teams, all the hair, makeup and wardrobe involved, there’s very limited time, there are tons of shots to create, there’s an immense pressure to “nail” the creative concept and obviously there is usually lots of money involved. These are high budget, high-pressure shoots. It’s diving into the deep end for sure, as far as photography is concerned. And I love that challenge. I love stepping up to the plate and going for the homerun.

But one of the things I DON’T love about these shoots is that I never really get to connect with the people I’m shooting. They’re in and out in minutes. Sometimes I literally am only able to take a few pictures before they’re wisked away.

This is one of those VERY few rare occasions where I was able to connect. And I have my subject to thank for allowing me into his story.

One of the cast members was John Schneider. You might know him from his work on “Dukes of Hazard” or “Smallville”. John was one of my many subjects that day and like the rest of the cast, he was extremely professional, humble and a lot of fun to work with. He was killing his portraits… smiling, goofing off and he even threw in several impressions of famous actors and presidents. I was very impressed by his talent and good-natured humor. You can see some of those portraits below.






Towards the end of his session, we brought in one of the female cast members to interact with. They were dancing, laughing and having a great time. Again, I was very impressed by his ability to light up the camera and have a good time.


Once we wrapped up his session, the female walked off set and John came to me and whispered in my ear “Hey can you sneak a few more portraits of me?” and I said “sure of course”. He said “there’s something going on and I just need a photo.”

So I grabbed my camera again and John walked back on set.

He immediately began weeping. Legitimately crying. He was so good at impressions that I thought this was another impression and I thought “wow, what an acting talent.”


But then after a couple of frames, I could tell that this wasn’t an act. He was really somewhere else.





Finally, I put my camera down. This was too real. It didn’t feel right to keep shooting.

So I walked up to him and hugged him.

He whispered in my ear “My Dad died about an hour ago. I found out during our lunch break. And I wanted you to capture that for me.”

Then he walked up to my screen, looked at the portraits and pointed to the last one (seen above, last) and said “That’s it. That’s my Dad.”

“I’m so sorry.” I said. I was stunned. Shocked. And deeply moved, obviously.
I didn’t want to ask any further questions out of respect.

John took off shortly thereafter to go back home to plan the next steps with his family.

I’ve since received official permission from John to share this story and these portraits with you. I will never forget this moment. And I want to thank John for inviting me into his story, even just for a moment and for allowing me to capture this for him.

As a father myself, I wept for him. We all did that day.

About the author: Jeremy is a Celebrity Photographer, Entrepreneur and a Humanitarian. He founded a global photography movement called Help-Portrait and recently launched an iPhone App/Social Network called OKDOTHIS. His goal in life is to use his platform, ideas and creativity to inspire and help others in need. You follow him and see more of his work on his website, Twitter, Facebook, Google+ and OKDOTHIS. This article was originally published here.

  • CharlesRievone

    Oh wow. Totally didnt see that coming. Damn.

  • Ray Liu

    Amazing story, truly heartfelt and touching.

  • John Mueller

    I think this happened about 8+ months ago because my own dad went to an estate sale near our home in the Malibu hills and my dad called me up and said, “I just went to a big garage sale at that Duke’s of Hazzard guy’s house. I think it was his dad’s house or something, but they were selling off everything like he had just passed away”.

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  • smordant

    Very moving story and the images captures his heartbreak.

  • Avaviel

    Wait. Oprah has a network?

    I, uh, haven’t watched TV in years.

  • WTNeckbone

    John got up and did a few songs at a bar my wife and I were visiting in Nashville a few years ago. Afterwards he posed for a shot with my bride and I also got a few of him on stage. A very warm, talented gentlemen. This story doesn’t surprise me. A class act.

  • Ning Wong

    ….wow…..speechless. great article and extremely touching.

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  • Tongela Nicole Bruton

    Wow! You never know what people are going through!

  • davidfGuest

    Very poignant.

    I gotta say, damn, he looks great. He’s aged magnificently.

  • badphairy

    What an awesome guy.

  • Ben

    Thanks for sharing. It is hard to lose the family we all grow up with and those we’ve loved. I often think of what my Dad missed not seeing my kids and grandkids as they’ve grown. Cherish the time we spend together. Your story shows there are real people in Hollywood. Thanks again for sharing.

  • Chuck Coverly

    One of my friends is on that show!

  • Peter

    A wonderful story.
    His is a VERY rare human being.

  • Becca Gulliver

    I feel a bit weepy now.

  • Michael Aldredge-Greenwell

    Very moving story; made my heart break, and tears come down my cheeks. Even a wonderful photographer can be human.

  • MyKinKStar

    Yeah, she has a network alright, called OWN for Oprah Winfrey Network. It’s got nothing much on it to offer though, and people aren’t going there like she hoped a few years ago when it went live. I avoid it, because it’s mostly reruns of Dr. Phil or some other talking head. It pretty much SUX . . .

  • MyKinKStar

    Thanks to Jeremy, the photographer, for capturing the magic, of reality. Thanks also for being decent about having that moment and not just blasting it out there without asking permission first. You were given a piece of John’s history and didn’t take advantage of it. Good Job!

  • ImTheNana

    <3 Loss of a parent is so hard. His professionalism in continuing the shoot despite the tragic news is a wonderful testimony to his dad. So sorry for your loss, Mr. Schneider.